Ok for all my fans out there….I’m back and more pissed off than ever. You see I am kind of a man hater, why, well I got my heart broken (who hasn’t?) but I took this very, very hard. Now I didn’t turn into a raging alcoholic or start starving myself or anything like that but it took me a good year to find strength and peace with in myself to finally except the things that I can not change. UGH! So whatever to the pissed off part!
What the F*** is wrong with men? Seriously, it is always the charming, smart, goal oriented, confident men who completely trap you into thinking they are something special, because they are lying to you! They have this alter ego and live two separate lives and think that no one will ever find out! Gentlemen, if you sleep with another women, while telling us that we are everything to you, the women of your dreams, the most beautiful person you have ever met, how we make you a better person…yada yada yada ya…we will find out eventually dumbasses! Especially when you are dumb enough to make a video or do anything on the internet (emails, myspace, whatever) you name the technology today, you can track anything! Freaking idiots! They even think if they F*** a girl in a different country that their girlfriend wouldn’t ever find out? These men have you fly to meet their family, and he meets yours, and you tell your dad “ Daddy, this is the man of my dreams!” Your family starts to accept that man as a part of their future and everything! And then boom you find out your future husband is speaking to another women, touching another women the same way he touches and speaks to you! With the same kind words, with the same movements and motions and strategies in bed, ugh! Just imagine the images that are forced to replay over and over again in your head when news such as this surfaces!
GRRRRRRRRRRR I can not believe the lies men these day live with and still have the nerve to continue living their life like they have never done anything wrong. What the hell is wrong with them? They don’t even care is the worse part, maybe women are the dumb ones for giving themselves to another person but it is not like we meet them and then fall in love, these men manipulate us and force us to open ourselves to them so that they can know everything about us, hence an easier way to control us! F***ers! The worst part is their “Trust” issues. These types of men say “Oh I have been hurt before, you aren’t going to cheat on me; you will always love me right?” They make us confirm over and over again our love for them so they know when shit comes out, no matter if we broke up with them cause they cheated, they still think they won because they know that you really, really, truthfully loved them; or the man you thought he was. They walk away smiling like, “Ha I got you right where I want you, you have fallen madly in love with me, I watched you and now I will sit and watch you fall apart because of something I did! I am a powerful, powerful man who can manipulate anyone to do what I want, look at this poor pathetic girl, she actually thought I loved her”!
No this has not happened to me again but to a women I adore and love. She now has to experience the type of pain I did and for that I could not be any more angry! When will this awful, awful madness stop?
Look at your rant, then look at one of Marks many rants on chicks (or as he calls them, sluts), women do the same thing. I’m not saying you’re wrong, and neither is Mark. But these days, i don’t think you can judge “all men” or “all women”…………it’s more like judging “manwhores” and “speedbagging bar sluts”. lol
It’s kinda like the whole “regular white guy” vs. “white trash racist redneck” and “regular black guy” vs. “thug life hip-hip black guy” ya know?
You act like men are the ones to blame here. Like women are innocent creatures always screwed over by men. Wrong…women are ten times worse than men. They are just better at hiding it. Especially white chicks..oh ya..that post is coming soon. Women today, especially in the under 25 bracket are some of the most decietful, scandelous creatures on this earth. But then they are the first ones to be like “where are the gentlemen?” F*ck that..I am supposed to send flowers to some speedbagging (the dance girls love to do these days that involves violently shaking the ass for ass to see) ho bag. Just watch any episode of My Super Sweet Sixteen on MTV. It’s child porn. These 15-16 year old girl dressed like porn stars and dancing like strippers, and they think it’s ok. Getting off track here…point is I am hard pressed to find a girl with class these days. There are a lot of fakes out there too. I know so many stories and hear new ones daily. I gotta stop..I could go all day on this.
All three of you make really good points. Garvey, it’s not fair to say that all people are like this; however, with the MTV / Friends generation in that age where they can get into clubs, they don’t know how to act or treat people because all they know is how to imitate whores in music videos and sleep around with everyone they can.
And Mark, I see it more as a snowball effect – where it started or how is irrelevant, what is present in today’s society is these chicks “speedbagging” and acting like sluts to be able to get the hottest dude, who treats them like sh*t, and after they get crapped on by these dudes they go back out and do it again, and the guys do the same thing, because it’s easy and “fun” to do, so both players contribute to the problem and make it worse.
Then you get people like myself (and perhaps like TJS) who are just so fed up and pissed off with this we don’t even want to try. And after a not-so-long-ago “thing” I’m more pissed than ever, which makes me want to get Operation Vince Neil underway, and join in the “fun.” But really, I don’t. What’s the point of shallow, meaningless, non-committal sex? Personally, drunken hooking up in a bathroom stall at a run-down sleazy club doesn’t really do it for me. Is a little loyalty and trust too much for everyone to handle today? I don’t think it should be, but every time I get sh*t on, it makes me all the more angry, and all the more willing to take a ride on this social snowball that keeps picking up speed and gaining momentum.
I think we’ve experienced at least relatively similar things, TJS, and even though it’s been a long time for you and you’ve found your own ways to cope, one thing that helped me (other than alcohol, which doesn’t really help) was taking solace in the fact that I know I’m a decent person, and because of that I’m bound to get sh*t on, but at least in the years to come I’ll be able to look back and know that everything I did was the right thing, and therefore have no regrets, even though it does suck. And if people don’t want to keep a good thing when they have it, that’s their stupid mistake. That, and no more writing songs for people. That’ll burn you every time. So don’t give up all hope, because there are still good people out there, somewhere… I hope.
The solution is simple…TJS…call Steve. Problem solved.